Are you a guy who likes women the same way you like your wine – always better with age? Have you been looking at free cougar dating sites in search for that one beautiful lady your heart desires?
If yes, then you also need to know how to blow that cougar’s mind. It’s not easy, but hard work and preparation really pay off when it comes to impressing your date. Here are a couple of guidelines that will help you be the man of your cougar’s dreams.
Show Her Your Best
Cougars are generally independent women and have a lot of experience when it comes to life itself. They won’t need you for your money, support or attention, because they already have it or know where to get it. This is why you will need to show your best qualities to impress her and make her interested in you.
Be a Gentleman
You take her out to dinner. The meal was lovely and you’ve come to the point where you have to pay the bill. Be the one who does that – not her. Even if she has way more money than you, you need to prove to her that you’re a true gentleman and insist on paying. This is the only way you will show her that you’re not just a toy-boy, but a grown man who can handle her.
State Your Opinion
Maintaining a cougar’s attention in conversations can be tricky, because they probably have a world of experience, they’re well-travelled, cultured and intelligent. Don’t be scared to state your opinion about the topic you’re discussing. If you’re only a listener, after a while she’ll grow bored of only hearing her own voice. Be assertive and have you own thoughts.
Don’t Be Timid
Cougars can be a force to be reckoned with, but this doesn’t mean you need to be just a cute face. If you want to have a deeper connection, you can’t be submissive all the time. Maybe she’s used to being the dominant one in relationships, but if you show her you’re equally assertive, she’ll surely take you more seriously.
Make Things Exciting
If she was looking for a night-in with takeout and a movie, she wouldn’t be looking for a younger man. You need to make life an adventure for her. Plan interesting activities that you’ll both enjoy.