Finding love is a process, and you need to experiment a lot to find out what works and what doesn’t. However, there are some mistakes that are better off avoiding if you want to find your western match. Therefore, if you are ready to get back on the market and meet your Mr. Perfect, here is a list of things you shouldn’t do.
Don’t text a guy how you feel
Not so long ago, if you had a successful first date and wanted to share your feelings with that person, you had to wait for three to four days to see them again. Then, you had to build up the courage to say how you felt to their face. Nowadays, everything is about texting and we rarely say out loud how we really feel. However, if you want to build real intimacy with your partner, you need to tell him about your emotions in a person.
Don’t think that you will change a bad boy
If you’re dating a guy who is fun and interesting but simply doesn’t fit the type of man who will make you happy, don’t try to turn him into another man. Try to see people for who they really are. That way you will save yourself a lot of trouble.
Don’t jump into bed with him before you get to know him
If you are looking for a fling or a fun one-night stand, you can skip this part. However, if you want to find a partner, someone who will be there for you in years to come, don’t jump into bed with them easily. Get to know the guy intellectually before you get to know him sexually.
Don’t label him too soon
If you have started dating a guy and things are going well, it is easy to assume that you are in a relationship. However, that might not be the case. Unless you have had THE conversation and you have agreed to be exclusive, you have to assume that he is most probably seeing other people, too. Therefore, don’t act like he is your boyfriend before he really is.